Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Monday, October 13, 2014

Wedding Bells for John and Angela

(why is this still in my draft folder? i have no idea)

On September 6, after spending the morning cleaning up our yard (I eventually finished our clean-up the following Monday afternoon), we cleaned up and headed to Howe, Indiana, for a wedding!

John VanderRoest (Vic's son) and Angela Yoder finally tied the knot, in a nice ceremony at St James Memorial Chapel, in Howe Indiana. It was a beautiful day:


Angela's son James was the first reader (Genesis 1:26-28), and Jim was the second (Corinthians 13:1-3).

James - he could have used a smaller stand!

Jim

Here's a shot of the happy couple, during the toasts at the reception:

Mr and Mrs VanderRoest!
Although we have no  photos to prove it, we enjoyed chatting with Karen and Richard, and with Angela's parents. It was a pleasant get-together, with good weather, food, and all that comes with a wedding. We didn't stay long (we missed the dancing), but wished the couple well and headed home as the sun was setting.


Saturday, September 13, 2014

Kali! Rain! Driving on Sidewalks!

Our niece Kali had an interview in Chicago, and offered to come early, so that we could drive over for a visit. So back on the 23rd (that would be August; still trying to catch up here), Jim & I hopped in the car and drove over to Dave & Joyce's home in Chicago. (We did make a brief stop at the Albanese candy factory. But you can't prove it - because we ate all the evidence - with help, of course).

After some discussion, we decided that we could fit all of us in Jim's car, and so Dave drove to Midway, where Kali's plane arrived a smidge early (that really happens?). 

We had pizza at Giordano's, but they messed up our order, and offered to charge us only half the price of the problem pizza (Jim would just have to pick out the peppers). But when the bill came, they had reduced the $20.75 charge to $12.00. Apparently math is not their strong suit...!

As we left the restaurant, it started to rain, and then to pour. I was glad we had squished into one car, so that I didn't have to drive in that storm.

Here the water was standing very deep, so Dave followed the drivers ahead of him, who avoided the water by driving far to the right, on the sidewalk:




Dave thought this was not a good spot to get back on the road:


So he kept driving on the sidewalk a bit further. Jim was nonplussed. A man watching us was surprised. Kali and I were delighted. Joyce, I think, was horrified.


Safely back at their place, out of the storm, we chatted and played games (Farkle - Jim won; SkipBo - Jim won)
Dave and Joyce

Kali

Jim

Dave and Robin

On the way home, Jim & I stopped in Chesterton, to switch drivers and get a snack. Jim noted that this is where we had our first meal as a married couple, way back when. So we took a picture:


Fun times!

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Mr. Darling and Mrs. Wiggs

I've recently finished two books, both very satisfactory reads.

I read Julia Glass's Three Junes some time ago, and it was a splendid read. I hoped that The Widower's Tale would be equally enjoyable, and it was. The tale concerns Percy Darling (the widower), his two daughters, his grandson, and an assortment of other characters.

Percy has been widowed for thirty years, and is sliding into a contented retirement. As events unfold, we learn about his deceased wife, and watch the shifting dynamics of his family. We see Percy inexorably pulled back into the community he has managed to avoid. I liked the character development - and the characters themselves - and the feeling of being a fly on the wall of this family.

The book wasn't quite as good as Three Junes, but I recommend it nevertheless as a good read.

I've been wanting to reread this book, and finally found an electronic version on the library's ebook database. Mrs Wiggs of the Cabbage Patch, by Alice Hegan Rice, was originally published in 1901. The version I first read was the one pictured here, which was published in 1962.

From my original reading, all I remembered was that Mrs Wiggs had Sunday School in her home, on wooden planks laid on chairs, and that she sang "Count Your Many Blessings." (I first heard that hymn years later, when my family started attending the Mormon church, and was immediately reminded of Mrs Wiggs.)

There is more to the story than that, of course. Mrs Wiggs is quite the character. and, notwithstanding her family's severe poverty, always looks for the best:
Well, I guess I ain't the best by a long sight, but I may be the happiest. An' I got cause to be: four of the smartest childern that ever lived, a nice house, fair to middlin' health when I ain't got the rheumatiz, and folks always goin' clean out of the way to be good to one! Ain't that 'nough to make a person happy? I'll be fifty years old on the Fourth of July, but I hold there ain't no use in dyin'  'fore yer time. Lots of folks is walkin' 'round jes' as dead as they'll ever be. I believe in gittin' as much good outen life as you kin -- not that I ever set out to look fer happiness; seems like the folks that does that never finds it. I jes' do the best I kin where the good Lord put me at, an' it looks like I got a happy feelin' in me 'most all the time.
When I was a child, we didn't have any bookstores in our area (at least none that I recall). Horne's, the department store in downtown Pittsburgh, had a book department, but we didn't get there often. I found Mrs Wiggs and the Cabbage Patch at Kresge's, at the West Hills Shopping Center. This was a "five and dime" store, the precursor to K-Mart. They had a rack or two of books, with a limited selection of children's books, along with coloring books and the like. I took a look at the selection each time we went there.

Kresge's also had a small snack bar, where you could buy ice cream. My mother and her friend Mrs Huesken would often share a sundae. There were balloons hanging at the counter, and you picked one and popped it, to see what your sundae would cost. Mom said that they always ended up paying the full price for their treat.

In addition to Kresge's, there was a Thorofare grocery store, and maybe an A&P Market, and also a barber shop and other shops. One time my sister and I lost the money Mom had given us to buy groceries, and didn't want to admit it. We dug into our savings to cover the loss, and (as far as I know) never 'fessed up.

I was trying to find a picture of the shopping center. Alas, what I found was that it has been razed, and a Walmart is going to be built in its stead. Walmart will never have the character of that old shopping center!

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Cattails

I recently read this this poem in a blog post:
Wandrers Nachtlied II, by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
translated as Wayfarer's Night Song II, by Hyde Flippo

Over all the hilltops
is calm.
In all the treetops
you feel
hardly a breath of air.
The little birds fall silent in the woods.
Just wait... soon
you'll also be at rest.
The blog post referred to the death of a man who apparently was well-known to long-time readers, but whose name meant nothing to me. But the poem was a gift - a pleasant surprise - an acknowledgement of peace and beauty. Lately, work has not been very satisfactory, and the best part of my day has been those times when I can escape for a walk with Bonnie.

Here are some photos, to share some of what Bonnie and I enjoy:

Friendship Village, July 1

Asylum Lake, looking west, July 4

Asylum Lake Preserve, July 12

This next scene reminds me of Mom. Growing up, she ensured that our home was always attractive, and she regularly added touches to enhance the simple decor. We went through a phase where the favorite was thistles and cattails, arranged in a large vase on the fireplace hearth. In our travels, it didn't matter where we were - if Mom saw cattails by the roadside, we stopped to gather them.

Asylum Lake, July 12

Asylum Lake, July 12

Friendship Village, July 17

Friendship Village, July 17

Friendship Village, July 17

Friendship Village, July 17

Friendship Village, July 17

Asylum Lake Preserve, July 20

Asylum Lake Preserve, July 20

Gratuitous beagle photo - these walks can wear her out!

July 4

Monday, June 23, 2014

Family Tour 2014 (Chicago Again)

Last Sunday (the 15th), we attended church in Chicago, at the Blue Island Ward - Spanish speaking! That was an interesting experience. I remembered enough Spanish to get the gist of the talks, but that was about it - I am clearly in need of practice. And poor Jim was totally lost (he knows several languages, none of them Spanish).

However - the real purpose of our visit was to see young David and Cassie (they were in town for a wedding), and their girls N and S, and we succeeded on that point. We enjoyed lunch together, and N and I made beaded necklaces, and we admired young S, and talked. It was a lovely afternoon.

S

David & N

N

N, David, Cassie, and S

Family Tour 2014 (Wolcottsville)

On the 14th, just a few days home from our trip to Washington, D.C., we went down to Howe, to visit with family and bury Vic's ashes. We met at the Howe Restaurant, for breakfast.

This was our first opportunity to spend time with J and C - delightful young boys!

Angela, A, J, Doug

John

Rich & Jim

Karen, Angela, A, and J
We finished breakfast with time to spare, and so went to the town square, to wander through the market there, and let the kids play a bit.

A and Meghan

C

J (such a nice-looking young man!)

John and Angela, Meghan and Doug
Karen, C, A, and J

Amish horses hanging out

We were pretty informal at the cemetery. Karen had John read a verse from a Valentine card that Vic had given her, and we had a moment of silence, and recited the Lord's Prayer.


From there, we went to Karen's new house in Wolcottville. It's very pleasant, on the water. We sat and talked, and Karen and I played badminton with J and C (I was really really bad). We didn't stay too long, and headed back home.

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Family Tour 2014 (More East Coast Family)

While in Washington, D.C., we went to church with Jon and Laura, and then visited with them a bit. (We visited before church as well, and managed to make them late for church. Oops.)

As soon as we sat down on the couch, two little guys glommed onto Jim:

Jim, C, and M
M went on to other things (including an elaborate "which is different" game), but C was content to sit and read with Jim.

After church, we tried for a group guy photo, but there were some challenges:

Jim, C, Jon, M
Love this photo!
Laura is an accomplished pianist, and she played a Chopin piece for us. I felt like royalty or something, sitting in on a private recital. It was magnificent!

Jon and Laura
We've really enjoyed these brief visits with our scattered nieces and nephews. It's particularly gratifying that they want to see us, too. ☺ We're headed to Chicago again soon, to see two grand-nieces - and their parents, of course!

Family Tour 2014 (East Coast Nieces)

Jim and I just returned from a trip to Washington, D.C. En route, we visited three of our lovely nieces: Annie, Amalia, and Becca.

We met Annie at her office with Highlights, in Honesdale, Pennsylvania. We were greeted by this young charmer and his bird:


We met the famous Gigantosaurus:

Annie is the one with smaller teeth.

One of Annie's responsibilities is to make selections from the poems and drawings that children send in:

Wow!
We enjoyed dinner at Fiesta, in downtown Honesdale (I ate too much). We also enjoyed Annie's reading of Oh No, George! We recommend the book, but I'm not sure it would be the same without Annie's version of a British accent.

Oh, I almost forgot. Since we all appreciate school-boy humor, here is another view of that young charmer:


We stayed the night in the Hotel Wayne. It is old, and not particularly fancy, but our room was comfy and the Wi-Fi service was great. And if you're visiting Annie, it is super convenient!

From Honesdale, we drove to Philadelphia, to visit Amalia. Traveling through Pennsylvania is a treat: the landscape is simply beautiful. Here are two photos taken as we drove down Moosic Mountain:

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Amalia found a wonderful restaurant where we could eat at outdoor tables, watch passersby, and admire the neighborhood. This classic church was just across the street. Amalia said that there were some five different denominations that shared the building:


As you can see, it was a gorgeous day, and we spent a long time sitting and talking and eating. Our meal was delicious (I ate too much).

I am NOT as short as this makes me look.
From here, we drove to Baltimore. Traffic was as expected (I longed for Honesdale), but we did okay. We took Becca's advice and visited the National Aquarium, which was simply amazing. (If you go to that website, there is a very cool shark cam...) We looked at pretty much everything (we stayed too long, of course), and really enjoyed the Blacktip Reef exhibit and the Animal Planet Australia exhibit.

I'll bore you with just one photo (mainly because our camera battery died shortly after this!):

Rainbow Lorikeet

We went to Becca's afterwards (Chris was away at an artist's retreat), and met Ruffus. Ruffus adored Jim, but was very wary of me (who would imagine that I would seem threatening to such a large dog?!?). We had dinner at the Shoo-fly Diner - delicious! (I ate too much.) We had a seat at the back, and just talked and ate for the longest time.

Robin and Becca